Use reps to earn the weight increase
For an 8 to 12 rep target, keep the same load while you add good reps over time. When you can reach the top of the range across the work sets without turning the final reps into uncontrolled grinders, increase the load by the smallest practical amount. Your reps may drop back to 8 or 9, which gives you room to progress again.
Increase weight or reps?
Add reps when you are inside the target range and still adapting to the current load. Add weight when you have effectively outgrown that range at the intended effort. Add sets only when more weekly volume is actually useful and recoverable. These are different ways to create overload, so changing all three at once usually makes it harder to tell what is working.
How big should the weight jump be?
Use the smallest practical increase that lets you keep the exercise, rep range, and technique recognizable. The right jump depends on the lift and the equipment available, so there is no universal percentage that fits every movement. A smaller upper-body increment can be a meaningful progression even when a larger lower-body lift can tolerate more.
Do not progress through pain or collapsing form
A completed rep is not the same as a good rep. If the extra load changes the movement, pushes you far beyond the planned effort, or aggravates pain, the progression has stopped matching the goal. Repeat the current load, adjust the rep target, or modify the exercise instead of treating every difficult session as a cue to add more.
Let your history answer the question
Wellness Project keeps the load and reps from completed sessions next to Personal Records, estimated 1RM and NSI, Muscle Fatigue, Training Load, and recovery context. A saved Workout Library session can then be progressed by Jamie from that history, so the next change starts from what you actually did rather than what a spreadsheet predicted weeks ago.
Stop guessing when to add weight
Log your working sets, keep reusable sessions in the Workout Library, and let Jamie read your real progression history before changing the next workout.